Spock has great respect for diplomacy, but if the Commander is aware of his reputation, then she must know he would never personally betray her trust. And he is not here in an official capacity, as he has already indicated to her.

"I am currently as far removed from Starfleet as you are from Ch'Rihan," Spock prompts her. "Despite appearances to the contrary," he adds, indicating the distinctive uniforms of the ship's crew all about them.

The server returns, setting down Spock's glass of fragrant Valerian tea before him. Spock waits for him to leave before continuing.

"I am not asking you to speak unwisely, but as a Vulcan, learning that time has done much to heal old wounds would be greatly encouraging."