"It does sound like it, doesn't it?" And yet he doesn't seem to happy. "He was good until I found out he wasn't. It's kinda complicated." And not something he'd discuss with a stranger. But he carried on anyway.

"Don't suppose your dad did bad things before you were born but he was still a great dad but then you found out about those bad things and you weren't sure if he was still the great dad you thought he was?"